Beware of the Wolf in Sheep's Clothing

Last night I went to bed peacefully as I normally do after doing my affirmations (I believe in them) and some quiet time with my Lord. While sleeping I was reminded of what I have been straight through recently and how I emotionally have dealt with it, I should share this process with others. I believe one should institution journaling and affirmations to stay in touch with reality.

You see, at the starting of 2009 I had to file for personal bankruptcy; it was time to admit I could no longer deal with all the debt I had incurred over the last 20 years. This was troubling, mostly to my ego, but my feelings about my worth remained in tact - it is what it is! Get the advice of a good lawyer when going down this track.

Now allow me to back up a bit in time. I was the controlling partner in a large building Company, that primarily built upscale homes. I handled the building side and my partner handled the money and financial issues. My partner passed away on New Years day of 2008. He had lung cancer, not a nice way to die, he smoked (that stuff should be illegal). As he began to fail, we hired another employee, my partner prime him as he came extremely recommended by two population we respected a lot. This young man was on parole but we felt every person deserves a second opening and we could help him. For those reading this you should always do a background check no matter who recommends that you hire someone.

That is where the biggest question began - we had hired a wolf in sheep's clothing without doing a background check. Since my partner liked him and I would trust my partner with my life - the new guy got an automated pass into trust. We felt collect in the structure of our finances, it had been created so there would never be a interrogate as to where the money went. When a turn such as this occurs, an audit by an accountant should be conducted. always do your due diligence, we did not. He began stealing from the company in October of 2007 and never stopped until all of our money was gone in October 2009. This issue has been turned over to the police.

He devised methods, covered his trail, and built lies into truths, a sick young man. I was crushed, a company I had personally built and nurtured since 1988 was destroyed. I went into a funk, I felt wholly hopeless, totally defeated, he had broken my heart. I never trusted whatever that much.

Thankfully, I read a lot and was currently complicated with a book written by Zig Ziglar, this book convinced me to go back to my affirmations and that "I am legitimately what I think". I began putting new obvious thoughts into my brain replacing the old negative ones. I began helping others, sharing me new beliefs with people. This was working but something still was missing.

I was spending more and more time talking to my Lord. Then it hit me, do what my Father always wanted me to do, read the Bible. I asked my wife for a Bible for Christmas - the New Testament. Well the Lord took over and I got a King James Version of the Bible, not just the New Testament but the Old Testament as well, the lord guides. I have since read the Bible from one end to the other, all 1461 pages at times, it was trying, but I knew I was being tested.

In the short few weeks since putting the Bible down, I have new passion. I have found a new career. I have put a team together and have more friends. I am truly just a great person. When in personal problem reach out to the Master. He is always there.

I am not pleased with how I got to where I am but I do know that out of every situation comes something good, if you look for it, yes, if you look for it. Effect me and I will keep every person updated, I am so excited I can not wait to get out of bed every morning and begin my new day.

Beware of the Wolf in Sheep's Clothing

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Beware of the Wolf in Sheep's Clothing

Beware of the Wolf in Sheep's Clothing
Beware of the Wolf in Sheep's Clothing

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Wolf Pack Ways - Alpha Pup - the hereafter Alpha Leader

We continue our exploration of wild wolf community and its implications for the behavior of your domestic dog with notice of how the wild wolf pups accomplish certain wolf pack rank, and how a pup develops into a new alpha leader of the pack. We have seen that wolf pups fast learn and apply predatory skills of hunting and ripping open the carcass of the kill. They strengthen their necks by tossing nearby caribou hide, practice evasive maneuvers and stealth in their play, and contact harsh lessons in the considerable role of obedience for their very survival. They learn and practice the discipline, cooperation, and respect for wolf pack rank that pervade wild wolf society.

But who among them will be the next alpha leader of this wild wolf pack?

When the pups of a wolf pack are about three months old, their need to run with a pack in fact begins to show. The pups start forming a line and practicing running with each other while avoiding collision with one another. It is at this time that their personel personalities come to be increasingly evident, although it is not until nearby the end of the first year when they start striving for position in the pack. (It is generally nearby the second year that most have enough contact in fact to gain pack position.)

Some bigger pups show aggression toward the smaller ones for accidental collisions with them during the puppy pack practice runs. These short-tempered ones are not going to be good wolf pack leaders. They are viewed as unstable, while the stability of the calmer pups leads to more self control, pack control, and influence.

It is the calmest and most alert pup who ends up prominent the puppy pack. The size and force of the pup does not determine his leadership. Frequently, the alpha pup in a wild wolf pack stands out and his position is guaranteed from early on.

The alpha pup will be followed by all of the others, who he directs with glances. Eye contact and subtle eye signals are vital transportation modes in a wild wolf pack, especially for the hunt, and equally prominent among domestic dogs.

As the alpha pup grows, he will take some incommunicable outings with the male alpha leader of the pack. during these outings, he will be taught the deepest secrets of prominent a wolf pack.

No other member of the wolf pack will disturb the alpha leader and alpha pup at this time. With a glare and send ears, the alpha leader will have commanded them to stay. Nor will the wolf pack panic at this 'departure' of its alpha leader, for they know what their alpha is doing and where he is.

The alpha pup begins to consequent the leader of the pack anywhere and to copy his behavior. If the alpha leader snarls and growls when eating, so does the pup. If the alpha leader looks at something, so does he. The alert pup does not miss a thing.

During this time, the other pups are growing into their roles, too, in this wolf pack society. For example, the alone pup who keeps to herself is a likely hereafter omega ranked wolf. The wolf pup who is constantly beside the alpha pup whenever he can be is likely to come to be a beta.

All the roles are prominent to make a balanced wolf pack. As with an army, there is a need and use for each wolf pack rank. The alpha leader rules as commander in chief, and has the respect of all other pack members. He also receives constant scent mixing and grooming from his wolf pack members to keep him encouraged and to keep his stress down. It is his responsibility to ensure that his pack lives!

The beta is faithful to the alpha leader, more than all others. In human terms, he flies his right wing, or is his right-hand man. The beta wolf defends the alpha leader whenever needed.

The omega, at one time called the outcast, is in fact the jester of the wild wolf pack. Slightly bullied by the others, nevertheless, he is a stress reliever for the wolf pack. He is apt to taunt higher ranked wolves and often is the last to eat.

We can liken the wild wolf pack to a corporation. Yes, the president (alpha leader) is important, but in fact do not forget his right hand man (vice president) and all the vital functions and employees under him. The wolf pack has a very productive training department, as the pups grow and are groomed for their hereafter roles in this very structured and disciplined wild wolf society.

Wolf Pack Ways - Alpha Pup - the hereafter Alpha Leader

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Wolf Pack Ways - Alpha Pup - the hereafter Alpha Leader

Wolf Pack Ways - Alpha Pup - the hereafter Alpha Leader
Wolf Pack Ways - Alpha Pup - the hereafter Alpha Leader

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Wolf Facts - 6 splendid Facts About Wolves That population Often Get Wrong

This article will present six engaging facts about wolves, which most citizen get wrong.

1) Most citizen think that the members of a wolf pack cooperate when hunting. This is observed to be incorrect.

2) It is a tasteless misconception that wolves tend to live in packs with a fixed structure with one "alpha male", and frequent challenges to his rule, etc. This is an incorrect view of wolf society.

The real fact is that a wolf pack is normally a single breeding pair and their children, so a wolf pack is more correctly described as a "nuclear family" than a hierarchical structure.

The tasteless opinion of the society of wolves . . . A hierarchy where less dominant wolves will challenge and displace the top animals is far from the truth. So the engaging examine becomes how did citizen get the facts so wrong?

The riposte is that citizen assumed that unrelated wolves forced to live together in captivity would have the same behavior as natural wolf packs, and this turns out to be far from the truth.

3) Many citizen think that a wolf pack will run for long distances when hunting, killing the prey animal by tiring it. This is incorrect . . . Most wolf hunts will stop after between 10 and one 180 meters, although sometimes wolves will run very long distances after prey . . . One wolf has been seen to run 36 km when hunting, but this is not typical at all.

4) Wolves will hardly ever strike any animal unless it shows signs of fear or runs away.

5) another tasteless incorrect view of wolves hunting is that large prey animals can only be killed by large wolf packs. This is also not exact at all . . . A single wolf on its own has been repeatedly seen to hunt and kill very large animals successfully.

6) Many citizen assume that a "timber wolf" is a separate species, when in fact it is another name for the "gray wolf".

That's six wonderful facts about wolves that most citizen get wrong.

Wolf Facts - 6 splendid Facts About Wolves That population Often Get Wrong

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Wolf Facts - 6 splendid Facts About Wolves That population Often Get Wrong

Wolf Facts - 6 splendid Facts About Wolves That population Often Get Wrong
Wolf Facts - 6 splendid Facts About Wolves That population Often Get Wrong

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The importance of understanding disagreement Resolution

Conflict exists throughout environments of all kinds. In the workplace, no matter how much you endeavor to avoid it, if you work with people the chances are you will have to deal with friction at some point. people coming from distinct viewpoints and experiences, and having distinct perceptions, are not going to agree all the time.

Here is the captivating fact about conflict. Some people see it as thoroughly negative while others write back as if friction is an obstacle that absolutely presents new opportunities for improvement. The two views of friction are worlds apart which means the responses to the friction will be just as different.

Unfortunately, viewing friction as only an impediment ordinarily results in dictator type responses on the part of management. And anything who has worked for a employer who issues dictates without getting input knows that style of management frequently generates even more conflict. The truth is that your view of friction drives your response to it and has a direct bearing on how well the friction is resolved.

Developing Great Leaders Able to decree Obstacles

As a manager, it is leading to understand friction and friction resolution. This is an oversimplified statement, because unresolved friction has absolutely caused projects to fail and even businesses to implode. The way friction is resolved often defines the business facts flow, creates leaders, and becomes an integral component of the corporate culture.

All businesses taste friction on distinct levels. friction can exist within a single project or department, or it can exist in the middle of business units. There is friction in the middle of employees and friction in the middle of management and employees. There is friction in the middle of the business staff and customers. There is friction in the middle of the employees of a business and its vendors. friction also arises in the middle of a business and the local government over issues like taxes and regulations.

You notice that most friction is connected to interpersonal relationships though. That is the friction which can be the most difficult to resolve, and true resolution is not potential unless the friction is recognized as an opportunity for improvement.

It is leading to understand friction resolution, because friction left to fester can lead to lower sales, poor customer assistance and fewer profits. For example, an laborer in the customer assistance call center dissatisfied with business responses to customer complaints may fail to narrative calls accurately out of the reliance it is a waste of time. An laborer in the reputation division believing work flows are not productive, but has no voice in the matter, might begin to violate business policies. A project with responsible departments in friction may lead to project failure as goals are not met.

A employer has to recognize the conflict; recognize the true sources of the conflict; and then begin a process of friction resolution. Productive friction resolution by a leader will have positive features.

* Recognizes an immediate crisis may only be a symptom of a more serious problem.

* Accepts friction as energizing for the business and a opportunity to improve employee, management, department, and business performance.

* Does not use "blame" as a tactic but focuses on the systemic causes of the conflict.

* Compromise is always included as a method of resolution except in rare cases where a forceful and unpopular decision must be made for the benefit of the company.

Managing friction means finding resolution. Productive leaders will embrace friction as an opportunity to improve workflows, productivity, customer service, and business performance. That is why management training and leadership coaching always comprise friction resolution as a strategy for success.

The importance of understanding disagreement Resolution

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The importance of understanding disagreement Resolution

The importance of understanding disagreement Resolution
The importance of understanding disagreement Resolution

The Wolves